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We used to get a lot of Lebanese drug dealers coming in too- I'm guessing there were links there because they didn't go to any other brothels. Is it rude to ask what is your favourite position and what other sex acts do you like performing? It's hard to say but I'd say the vast majority.

It's certainly difficult at times. Some colleagues or peers, as we tend to call each other are too sensitive, I reckon. Me, I just let it all roll off my back. It helps that I have a day job and plenty of other hobbies to focus on. Also, an industry secret: I don't know why grinding on all that cushion feels so good. I orgasm most times with clients.

A lot of them want to go down on me. In fact I have an easier time getting head at work than in my personal life, I reckon. I'm usually in a different headspace when it happens like getting rough fucked by Gary Oldman- I have weird taste in men, I know. Sometimes I find it easier to come at work than in my personal life because I feel less pressure. I don't care whether the client thinks I'm faking it or not.

I already have his cash at that point so an orgasm is just gravy. But with dudes from my personal life I put more pressure on myself.

Sometimes I get self-conscious about how long it takes and it stresses me out. Hopefully I didn't sound patronizing in asking, I was just genuinely curious.

If clients want to get whipped they'll go to a dominatrix or a sex worker who specialises in fetish. If I'm alone with one dude I stand a chance of beating him in a fight should things get ugly. I'd like to get DP'd someday though.

I couldn't t think of anything more boring. Bowral has tons of wineries and if you travel around them all you can pretty much get shitfaced for free. There's a lot of great little restaurants You can buy old tins, old cutlery, old glass jars and bottles, old linen, old furniture; and the like, for about five times the price anywhere else in Aus. Then you can have scones and cream. I'm trans myself so I'm curious about this one. Know of any transgenders in the industry and how that's all perceived?

But from what I've observed, trans escorts deal with waaay more shit from clients than us cis-gendered escorts. I'm talking assault, rape etc. Transphobia is still alive and well, unfortunately. I'm MtF but post-op, mid-thirties, have a partner who I care for a lot along with the wrong personality type for that line of work, but still, thanks for your insights in this thread.

Anything that helps break down stigma and ignorance among the wider community is always a good thing: Forgive me if I'm wrong, but the sex work industry in NSW is mostly legal, yes? Given the legality of it, are there any policy changes you'd like to see regarding the sex work industry?

And if so, why? The legislation is a jumbled-up mess. In NSW all they did was decriminalize it. They introduced all of these regulations, like brothels have to collect sexual health certificates from their workers, but the government does nothing to enforce them. This is why brothels and agencies get away with treating their workers unfairly.

So yes, I'd like to see these regulations enforced properly but I doubt the government would be willing to provide the funding for that. In Victoria it's legalized and regulations are better enforced, e. But some of the laws are really stupid. Either they have to hire a hotel room under their name or I have to go to their residence. I think this is to prevent the emergence of illegal brothels but in practice it just doesn't work.

Honestly, I'd hate to add it all up, because it would mean having to face up to just how bad my spending habits are. It's been an hour and OP's still not answering, so if you've got any questions feel free to ask me. I'm not a sex worker, never really had anything to do with the industry in my life, but hey - I'm here right now, so why not? I once became good friends with a girl who had been trafficked. She was brought over here to Australia by this dude http: She told me that he locked her in a room all day with two other American girls.

He advertised them on privategirls. I forget how she eventually managed to escape but she was too scared to press charges. Are they high flying corporate types, ugly loser incel types, older married men or 'regular' young guys? Here's how an ugly loser incel reads my escort ad: And she doesn't even do natural head? Fucken what's with all of these girls thinking they're god's gift? The other ones you mentioned, yes, I see them. Usually two or three of those descriptions can apply to one single dude.

I'm getting a bit bored by it though. I've been doing it for too long. It allows for a lot of leisure time. How have you handled your personal relationships?

Specifically partners or have you avoided those? The first time I told a man I dated, we had met while traveling so I hadn't worked for 3 weeks by the time I met him. He suspected and kind of forced it out of me. He was angry at first and asked a couple of degrading questions. The next day he apologized and we fell in love.

Then we broke up. I went back to working a few months after we broke up. Second dude I met while I was taking a long hiatus from the industry. This one's a bit more complicated but long story short, he didn't accept it. His marriage had ended a couple of years beforehand because his wife caught him cheating on her at brothels.

Then a year before he met me he had a relationship with a working escort who was quite psychologically abusive to him. Basically he couldn't accept that I was an escort because I didn't conform to how an escort is supposed to be, in his mind. I think that so long as escorts and sex workers were as bad as they were in his head, he could still blame them for the failure of his marriage, and his character, to an extent.

Then along came me, all kind and caring and empathetic and it just threw him into a loop. That didn't last long. I told the last dude I dated on our first date, but after we'd had sex. He was chill about it. We only saw each other for a few weeks. It ended because he was just too busy with his work and lived too far away. I'll never know whether the whole escort thing got to him or not because it was a very short-lived thing. But so far all signs point to no.

I just take each situation as it comes and act accordingly. But I generally avoid dating while I'm actively escorting. My friend is currently dating a girl who works as an escort. Right now it's a novelty but I'm assuming the shine is going to wear off quite soon. Have you ever had a partner during your career? How were they with it?

Honestly, I've never dated a guy long enough for the 'shine to wear off,' so to speak. My GP has dated escorts before and he is adamant that I keep it secret from any future boyfriend I may meet after I retire because it will always be niggling at the back of his head, i.

That's just his opinion though. I take it with a grain of salt. Like is there a specific race that tends to be more rude?

I remember reading from an escort on this subreddit IIRC that clients who drive a big car usually have a short one. Is that true from your experience? Dated a client, once. I was manic at the time. I dumped him because he was always cancelling plans at the last minute and only ever came to my house. Either he was married or he was hiding something major. As a rule, I don't date clients. Can't say I've felt tempted since that debacle either. One of her main rules was that she never orgasmed with her clients, but she would always fake it.

Do you have a similar rule or any other rules that you have self-imposed? Most of the men I see have low self-esteem. Imagine their delight when I am brought to orgasm while being sexual with them. Now imagine how crushed they would be if I just faked it. With the amount of ego men attach to their ability to make women orgasm, orgasming with a client is one of the best things I could do for my business.

Besides, why shouldn't I get mine? Just because it's work doesn't mean I can't enjoy myself. Yes I never really got it either, it seems redundant really, all that effort not to cum. Anyway thanks for answering, have a good one: I hate the black and white representations of it. In media sex workers are either dirty junkies on the street or posh courtesans seeing CEOs in expensive hotels.

Take me for example: I charge pretty high prices but I don't do more than 3 bookings per week and my day job is in aged care.

My circumstances have changed numerous times throughout my sex work career but I haven't ever felt like I could identify with how it's portrayed in media. Usually the ones who are moderately attractive bearing in mind their age and circumstances , have good banter, are kind and respectful and are good in the sack- meaning, they don't require too much work.

The ones who are too much work are usually the ones who can't maintain an erection in a condom. Cue me spending the next hour making my arm go numb from all the exertion required of a vigorous handijay. Does anyone in your personal life know about your job? I'm afraid of my Dad and brothers finding out. I broke down and confessed everything to my parents about having been a sex worker for years about 2 years ago while I was on hiatus.

Only my Mum knows I've returned. She doesn't want me to tell him because otherwise she'd 'never hear the end of it. She's a very emotionally repressed person. So she had her initial outburst of 'Easy money blah blah selling your body blah blah,' then we didn't talk about it for a few weeks.

We still don't talk about it much but I'll sometimes mention where and when I'll be traveling to work. Not that I know of. I think they've cracked down pretty hard on that since the Wood Royal Commission. The closest I've gotten to a male escort was going on a coffee date.

I was still hung up on my ex so nothing happened. By the time I was ready he had moved on. He's a nice guy though. He provided me with an interesting insight: I also have a no-Indian policy but I discriminate based on culture.

I have numerous clients who are Indian by race but they don't conform to the negative cultural norms that India is sadly renowned for. Some I do see were born and raised in India but don't conform to those negative cultural norms. Interestingly these ones usually come from more privileged backgrounds.

When I explain this latter policy to other clients I say, 'Have you ever done business with an Indian? I am kind of interested in this too. Are they mean, cruel, racist?

Do they have weird fetishes? Do they always try to haggle with you about your fee? They come from a culture that is far more patriarchal than ours. I'm not saying that explains it. I've never had any problems with Middle Easter clients so far.

But they seem to view us more as receptacles than humans, asking questions like 'How many times can I come in 30 mins? And their phone and text messaging manners are appalling. Think 'heyy u workin babe? Not to butt in, but I'm a sex worker too and I want to back her up about the Indian thing.

It's only those from India, it's a cultural issue. Not those raised here or elsewhere. It makes us sound awful but for your own sake you just have to ban them. They view you as less than human. They will do stuff like put you a headlock when kissing you so you cannot pull away then they will bite your face.

If you tell no to something they will try it on anyway repeatedly. I have had an Indian be so rough with me they knocked out my contacts. In contrast, as she says, Middle Eastern men get a bad rap in the media but are actually really awesome. I see newly arrived Iraqi refugees and they are so lovely. The Lebs were usually obnoxious in the meeting rooms but once you get them separate from their mate, they're absolute puppy dogs.

I'm not Irish and there are not many reasons I can imagine. Drunken, disorderly, hostile, disrespectful and on top of all of that, they have big dicks but don't know how to use them and so proceed to jackhammer away causing literally stabbing pain to my kidneys. Oh god I know that pain, it's the worst. I think if I was in your line of work I'd have to advertise a maximum length. The amount of times I'd go back to the girls' room after a booking at the brothel and just lay down and curl up in the foetal position, clutching my uterus would make you shudder.

There's a compliment in there and we'll take it. Joking aside, you Aussies are actually marginally bigger drinkers than us, according to WHO data. I find this too very interesting. At the end of the day, you should have control over who you do business with especially since you work privately and it is your body. But playing devil's advocate, having policies such as the ones you hold does it conflict with this push in the sex industry to be more legitimate and transparent from a business perspective?

I see businessmen who refuse to do business with certain demographics. They're still laughing all the way to the bank. Plus, there are far more racist 'legitimate' industries out there than escorting e. Extremely late to the party. This is not a question but just wanted to thank you for doing this AMA. It was really interesting and you sound like a cool chick. Good luck on your studies.

I'd suggest getting another phone that you can hide from your wife. Try to sneak out at times you would otherwise be at work. I often see married clients early in the morning, e. Second best would be pretending you're going somewhere like the gym or tennis or playing squash- try to think of a hobby she'd never be interested in. If you chicken at the last minute, have the decency to phone and cancel.

The amount of times I've turned down bookings because someone else has booked me, only for that someone else to pull a no-show is infuriating. This is why I take deposits now. More importantly, why would you want to see sex workers behind your wife's back? Seeing sexual providers is no solution. It just escapism and it will only delay the inevitable. Instead of running away from your problems, why not get the courage to confront them? Clean your junk well, make sure you breath doesnt stink, almost everywhere makes you have a shower before playtime anyways.

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Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. Since then I have worked at 6 different brothels in Sydney, Melbourne and Perth. One year later I had a mental breakdown and left the industry for 9 months.

I returned nearly a year ago, this time in Sydney and I haven't looked back since. I regularly tour interstate. I plan to retire in June this year when I move overseas to study for my Masters. Ask any question you want. Want to add to the discussion? How would I get into this line of work? Also, what are you studying? Unless he bathing in Pol Roger I guess. I wish I had been born with a vagina: I don't want to be a hooker anymore. I'll point out that I'm happily married Question: I take Ubers now.

Flat rate for a night? As for how cute I have to be to charge this amount? How does tax even work for escorts? Do you have an accountant? Make the most of it. I'm just young, dumb and full of cum. How shit are Australian cops in relation to sex work? Was your breakdown a result of the industry or was it unrelated to that? Any interesting observations about human psychology? I already provided an exhaustive answer to this further down in the thread. Most clients just want affection and validation.

Removed link because of Daily Mail article. You have a stronger stomach than I do! And no, I've never bought property. Also, what kept you there? Anyone with their shit together will go private. Working in mental health I don't know if I should laugh or cry.

That's actually quite deep. Do you get a root for that kind of money? Still tight, though, if my clients and tinder dates are to be believed. According to one peer, American men are gentlemen. I stopped seeing him after that. Hard to take your stance seriously. George spoke disparagingly of his wife. Plus he was a bit of a cunt in general. I agree with you. But this is the time.

I wanted to tell everyone about this great community website, www. They are trying to raise money to complete the site and are looking for contributors to help them in their crowd funding effort. Please go to http: Hi Sandi, thanks for your post. The Erotic Reveiw is useless, has out of date information, very few escorts especially in smaller communities, and if it was as good as you say, escorts would be using it instead of advertising on Backpage.

Second, I didn't say that you should talk about pricing.. At some point there is a discussion about pricing.. Every girl I have ever talk to mentions a figure before we ever meet. Most escorts prefer the money in hand before they start saying what they are and are not willing to do. Why do you think alot of the ads state no "dirty talk" ect. A client has already "wasted" their time by arranging a meet that leads to nothing. Would you really let a client leave once you met with him and know he has the money in hand?

Would you still try to sell him some service because you have wasted time in meeting with him, instead of someone else? Yes I do think that if you get ripped off you should "seek revenge" The way things go right now, girls know that a client has little or no options when they pull some shit, that's why they do it.

The fact is there has been a large increase in the number of escorts on Backpage. A sign of the econmic times we are in. There are alot of young girls who want to make alot of money fast. Sometimes a girl thinks she can make money faster by pulling shit. That's the way it is. Like it or not It comes with the fact that your engaging in an illegal activity and sometimes people use that as cover for them to pull some shit. I don't think a pimp wants a girl working for him that cheats clients.

It interferes with his money and increases the chance of police involvement. Don't you think that is more of an insentive for a girl not to cheat clients?

Don't you think he and her are going to have a discussion? All clients who have been screwed pay the basicly the same amount when things go right or wrong. As far as dangerous You could characterize the whole industry as dangerous, alot of dangers for the escorts and the clients. Until they leagalize the oldest profession nationally, and regulate it I completely agree with you.

In fact, one of the reasons I still use Backpages is I've found escorts on the far more expensive sites to be, shockingly, less reliable. I agree with the young woman who posted above that clients should be on time, sanitary everywhere, respectful, grateful, and able to pay.

That said, I find especially the pricier escorts to be peculiarly "entitled," in that they think simply allowing me to be in their presence is what I'm paying for--not what they agreed to. I also agree with you, R. I'm all in favor of escorts doing the same to disrespectful or hurtful clients, by the way. But I see far, far, far more abuse from escorts than the other way around. Especially given how well I'm willing to and do from the very start treat them, such depredations are unwarranted.

They think we're too afraid to do anything about their unprofessionalism. Thanks to you, that's no longer the case with me. Like I said, you're one of my new heroes. I agree that erotic review is useless. Also, asking to many questions over the phone will make the girl nervous, and should make you nervous if she is willing to answer them.

There are new task forces in these small towns and they are cracking down. And another thing, pimps don't care how the girls get their money as long as they get it.

If you are looking for a safe time I would stay away from hotels altogether. The safest place to go is to the girls house. If she has you over to her house she will not steal from you!

These girls are not that dumb. And when you get caught it is a gross-misdemeanor. Which is a step down from a felony. Sorry sweet you are wrong; It is not a gross-misdemeanor it is just a misdemeanor.

Now if you been caught more then 3 time you habitually and that is a felony.. Bust them off the net guys! Here is an E-Mail response I received: Do you know what works great too with escorts so they never know your real phone number. You can spoof them with a bogus phone number. You call a toll free number and then punch in the code they give you. Then the recording asks you to punch in the number you want to call.

Then it asks you to punch in the number you want to appear on their caller ID. Just make sure to punch in a number that is not in service because you don't want them calling another person thinking it is you. I have been doing this for two years and that way the escort never knows your real phone. Well actually there are quite a few apps for smartphones- iphones and android- that accomplish this for free.

I personally use an app called magic jack, its completely free and gives a fake caller id number. Here is an E-Mail response: Guys be warned of girls who pretend that they have forgot something in their cars and justify their coming back by conveniently placing their handbags in an area easy to be seen.

Guys take care and please use a condom regardless of what documentation she tries to show. I am really mad on her. I posted on backpage but it showing me community removed. Your the one that got caught slipping Chock that up to the game And she was very convincing.

I'd asked repeatedly if she was trustworthy, and of course she'd promised that she was. Then just as we were about to begin, she had to go down to her car to get something important.

She promised, again, to return, and never did. And I got nothing. You are absolutely right, R. I've also learned NOT to trust escorts anyone, really who implore you to trust them. They're just preying on you. There is more than one way to check. TER is actually good if you are diligent. Posing info here or starting another review website would also work. Oh, and BTW, google is your friend here too. Just google their phone number, email or whatever. Also, google voice is free if you want an alternate number which you control where it rings.

Easier than those caller ID cards and free. So you can't blame girls for not answering. If they talk about pay AGAIN in the room that's where the cops arrest them saying they're prostituting even if their ad says escort. Just letting you know. Your post really got me thinking man Find great information about las vegas escorts. This is nice blog and she also discuss some factors for escort related.

Well, we created and app for escorts. It's actually working in spain and New York, maybe we'll open more cities at the states. But before that, we would like to send you our press release and hear your opinion about it. I won't add anything here, just the name Utoopi. And if you are interested, send me an email. The agreement is only as good as you make it. Say for an overnite, agree on a time frame ie 8am to 8pm 12 hours seems fair as a minimum then insist that she is on time no excuses.

It seems that girls will try to shorten the engagement by showing up late. I know it will be hard no pun intended hearing her well practiced "girl next door voice" but just do it. She is trying to rip you off from the start. Also have her agree prior to your meeting that you will pay her when your agreed term is up. I once made the stupid mistake of giving a girl 1K up front for an overnite.

She was supposed to show at 8pm, then called at 5pm asking to come early, then called at 7 saying she'd be late. Finally after several calls she arrived at I got 2 hours in with her when I left the room for a minute and she said she was going to get something from her car. I returned just in time to see her tail lights pulling out the driveway. Several of the warnings you mentioned were there: And another warning sign, she did not appear to be as well groomed as you'd expect.

Not dirty but her breath was stale, her legs were nubby and she was a little smelly down south not sweet clean like most good girls. All signs of not caring about what she gives you or intentionally presenting herself that way trying to get "you" to cut it short. I have been using BP for about six months both in my home state and while on the road. Upselling, visits to homes vs hotels and fake pic's make this a challege to have a good time. Fake photo's piss me off and now I walk away.

I have been to three homes and in each case I would rather not have seen they way they live. The lack of sex at home and insanity of discovering BP like a teenager after 5 monsters! This blog is very helpful - thank you. My vote is hotels and the service from the traveling escorts. The hotel is neutral, easy to get in and you vanish when you walk down the hall.

Traveling girls come back to the area and want repeat customers and don't ask for help with rent. I was a provider for a short time now I offer erotic massage. I never asked anything from a guy info, pics that I wasn't willing to offer in return and I won't deal with a guy that can't be just as fair. Many times, guys would tell me that my cautious approach told them I was not a scammer.

Women that bare it all on ads have got to be either fake, or just plain crazy! Whatever negative experiences you've had, please don't throw all BP ladies under the bus because there ARE some that you'd be prefectly happy with and very pleasantly surprised!

I despise that site. TER is a system which gets played by both men and women all the tme. Many reviews are fake, whether positive or negative. People on the boards behave like morons and I find it to be a very negative place for women. I don't want to share my time with a guy that has to write details of our time together I want to be with a guy who appreciates the fact that I'm who I say I am, I'm intelligent, DD free, very low volume and actually work hard to make our time special.

I want him to respect me as a human being The ladies have to deal with a lot of asses out there that lie, bad mouth you because they sense you just were not attracted to them, try to get away without using a condom, and generally try to get you to do everything at - a discount!!

I have followed my own rules, not what guys on backchannel boards, TER, etc have suggested I do and have had the most success and better quality clients. Personally, I don't want attention. I post on BP to attract a certain type of clientle and they have all become trusted regulars.

I don't want what we do discussed anywhere because I think it greatly increases the changes of running into problems. Police montior these sites on a regular basis so I think it's incredbly foolish for anyone to think they are safe!! For personal and legal reasons I understand what you mean when you say you'd rather your clients not speak of the experiences you have with them. At the same time their not exactly buying into something they solely own.

Isn't it only practical to assume that if there's a discreet way to research someone you may want to spend time with that one would do it rather than going in blind and possibly being disappointed in the end. Lea, Kudos to you, you are the type of escort that is needed in the industry. Why did you stop escorting? You can e-mail me if you'd like. Hope you are doing well.

Well this blog has been a very good read. As a Crimal Justice Major and avid law junkie I know odd combo please do NOT call the cops to report a theft while committing a criminal act. You may even be arrested, most likley before they ever talk to the female. I just don't think it is worth it, the BP Ad works, a bad review works, otherwise move on untill you meet someone nice like me!

Use common sense and go with your guy when you find someone that you're interested in seeing! I like to read the information about the London Escorts.. Is not even close. You can used tineye to trace her photo Just let your provider know that you would like to video record your time together. And you get free porn. Most won't do this, but some do, and I like the girls that do.

I had an ongoing, steady, "business relationship" with an escort for 8 months. The sex was fairly decent most of the time except the last few times when there was very little foreplay and personal tension between us. When I became more of a regular she gave me "deals" as I was only seeing her but later I looked at other ads and noticed that they were not really deals at all and that the rates were pretty much the same as everybody else..

During the 8 months I had tried very hard to develop some kind of friendship with her, but she was pretty dismissive of the idea, though she always gave me hope that that was possible..

Part of me just thought it would seem less cheap, less like I'm using this person.. WHy would you even bother with someone who was clearly desperate, irresponsible and tacky?? Your common sense would have served you well if you had chosen to use it. Stick with mature minded women that don't rely soley on this for self support. You can pretty much tell when someone has their head screwed on straight and if they seem even a little off Desperate people do desperate things and this includes taking advantage of the nice guy.

Bp really-really-really isn't for you. You're looking for a relationship, trying some dating sites or get a job in sales you'll meet PLENTY quality women that way lol. This blog makes it seem as though the guys are victims.

Someone here even went as far to say that when a provider pisses him off enough, he should send an annonymous letter to the police! Are you freaking retarded?!?! The ladies have to deal with an enourmous amount of BS from clients or potential clients.

It's part of playing in this arena Live and learn and move on with your brain in tact. Being vindictive leads to nothing but trouble because we all know who we have our troubles with and will therefore be aware of WHO outed us Guys are often unfair and troublesome Guys are not angels and you cannot go into this with such a riduculous level of suspicion that you come off with a bad attitude and think you have the right to form a lowly opinion of a girl simply because she's on BP.

Losers come in both male and female varieties! Personally, I hate advertising on BP because I see it as a bit of a cesspool. There certainly ARE a great deal of liars, players, druggies, etc. But we all hope to find that diamond in the rough or the site, this blog, and conversations in general would cease to exist!

Let's be fair, open minded and use some common sense and we'll all be fine!! Lea, obviously you've dealt with some unscrupulous clients. I think everyone recognizes there are disreputable people on both sides of this type of business relationship, but what we clients hear about almost always is how dangerous this work is for service providers, and how hard it is on them. I for one am very happy for this site because it offers a place for abused clients to air our grievances.

I have treated every professional I've ever attempted to see with the utmost courtesy, and have even worked diligently to ensure their comfort in my presence. And yet, among the dozens--at this point it wouldn't be an exaggeration to write "hundreds"--of service providers throughout the USA I've contacted, the vast majority have been rude, contemptuous, disrespectful, dismissive, and emotionally acerbic.

I am a professional, well respected in my community--because I treat my clients with dignity, making them feel worthwhile, each. The few providers who've deigned to answer my questions about why so many of them are averse to accept my cash always preface what they say by pointing out how congenial and respectful I've been. And then they malign my body habitus--my age early 40s or my race African American. The first time a provider told me it was her prerogative to accept or deny whomever she chose, I was incredulous.

In no other industry is such blatant discrimination tolerated--and it is in this one simply because the industry remains outside the purview of standard legal practices. I cannot tell you how many times I've read in the title of an ad "No Blacks! And to test the hypothesis that the providers are simply busy, I've texted or emailed via a different account, only to be quickly greeted with availabilities.

I didn't mean to turn this post into a rant. I do, however, take strong objection to the implication that disgruntled clients are ourselves to blame, and the assertion that we "waste your time with endless emails and stupid questions only to never book a session" many of us have a list of questions because we're trying to avoid repeated humiliation and financial predation.. You state "Guys are not angels.

After so much denigration at the hands of service providers, I'm elated to find this site, to have read R. No other professional--lawyer, doctor, engineer, mechanic--can abuse clients with impunity. It's high time escorts be held to similar standards of professionalism and social equity. Im a escort and I wold just say that half of this is totally crap!!!! How do u know if they will go all the way for the same price the advertise?

I used backpage about 6 times in two years and the last time I used it, I was refused service by a Spanish girl by the name of Susy within one minute in NYC. I haven't said anything offensive or done anything that was threatning. I was well groomed and hygenic. Over the phone, she sounded nice and asked for my age. When I said 28 and she said ok. When I got to her place and she asked for my age again and when I said 28, she asked me to leave. I left, but WTF? That was extremly rude and a waste of my time.

I hope she does'nt do that with the next guy or else he won't be nice at all. The first five times were amazing. First time was with a sexy black girl name Cherry from Queens.

I highly recommend ID , but please be courteious and kind with her because she is not only hot, but shes very sweet, accomadating, and not a "clock watcher. I only read a couple lines I happen to be the of your synopsis and I find your comments to be misleading. Do black men have a reputation of doing shady shit to them?

I don't get it. I txt one BP provider the other night super hot. I asked her "why don't you provide service for black men" and she asked me if I was black and I said yes and she never responded. So is it a preference thing or is BP full of sexy racist bitches? I swear I'm so fucking sick of this race bullshit! Why can't we all just get along, we're all humans and bleed the same color.

Let other people know this girl is only out to scam you. You are the biggest idiot ever, Can you not spell? Holy hell you used the wrong you're like 12 times, go back to grammar school.

No wonder you have to pay for a girl to come over and excuse me? You are fucking these girls? Sounds more like prostitution to me. I believe with escorts you are suppose to pay for these girl company and then most of them decide to fuck you or not. You obviously are uneducated in all aspects, even escorts. If I were you I wouldn't be writing advice for a subject you seem to lack information on yourself. Neveah your right lol. I was waiting on a girl to come on here and say that lol!

Im one of those guys that didn't read the whole ad So I called meet up with the girl, I wasnt in the room for more that probably two mins and she wanted to see my Johnson. I showed her and she got up open the door and said I had to leave. At the moment I was like wtf!

Then she laughed closed the door and sat next to me and explained why she didnt want black guys because she didnt want her walls knocked out and her other clients would complain because they couldnt feel anything. I told the girl i was sorry for not reading the whole ad, and in the end she fucked me anyway and I made her cum twice; and i think she enjoyed it more than I did.

I've been with two girls off Bp both were the best looking girls on the page in my opinion.. But the one that wanted me to come back and invited me to her house which was in a different city was the girl that didn't want black guys.

I see these amazing looking girls on BP. I checked tineye the phone number and TER. They have area codes out of the local area. The two beauties I've called wanted in-call which I guess is ok. I don't know if it's a trap or legitimate. The woman are so tempting it makes me want to take a chance but I have too much to loose. Are they legitimate or not? I have been with two girls off Bp and they both had out of state numbers. I'm curious how these girls bounce around from town to town.

Does someone tell them where to go? Is there some logic they use in determining their next destination? I found an ad in BP and I tried find her number is valid. But couldn't find the number on the phone lookup web sites. But she is very gorgeous on the ad. What should I do? This girl is ripping off the people ,plus she carry danger disease ,the symptoms close to HIV http: Don't know how I found myself here but i'm glad i did lol. Though I feel kind of naive right now because I really hadn't put much thought into how complex this all could be.

I had the opportunity myself to call a girl once a while back, but after my old roommate's ex-girlfriend provider told me most girls prefer not to deal with black guys it pretty much soured me on that fantasy. The whores are complaining how bad they have it while the tricks are sharing all the grim repercussions that comes with hiring the wrong girl.

I read a blog by an ex call girl called The Honest Courtesan and she seems to be a pretty intelligent woman, I just wish there was a blog from the opposite perspective, I suppose like this one, that would give the other side of the story.

I fail to see one side as the victims and the other side as getting over either way. This is my 1st time but have any of you encounter this girl before?

Hi Guys, i have been recently involved in escort scam. She came to my place and stole my wallet and ran away. I asked just my wallet which has my ID and Cards. She even misused my cards..! I am really confused on what to do.? I am afraid to go to police..!! This ad is fucking cheat, scam Hi thanks for peovide the Black Escorts London information. Guys most girls also don't see black guys because of the recent epidemic of pimps harrassing us.

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They're a bunch of crooks n the girl is pretty ugly. Post I'd is Their promises are fake and so is the ugly girl at the desk there. She works out of live girls ATM on lake street. I am loving it!! Will come back again. Sexcaparate valencia chicas valencia. You are giving people very bad advice on a lot of things concerning your blog here. Back page has to be one of the most dangerous places to go looking for escorts.

There are a ton of gals who have no clue what they are doing, they are not even legitimate escorts. There may be a few legitimate providers but honestly it's like trying to find a needle in a haystack when searching for a reputable lady on that site. Yes, some reviews are embellished and some are not always accurate but for the most part a guy can go onto these escort boards look a reputable provider's profile up and also view all the posts she makes and get a much better idea of who you are dealing with.

It isn't just reviews it is her posting style. There is a certain protocol and etiquette that should be followed when dealing with a real "escort". I have been in and out of the business for close to 10 years and I have seen a huge influx of girls being "pimped" on places like Back page.

A smart gentleman will avoid those ads at all cost, and go to the reputable sites to look for reputable escorts. There is a huge difference in the level of service and maturity and professionalism when dealing with a real "escort". As one of the other ladies commented on your blog here, you do get what you pay for. Back page to me is an virtual "internet street cruise" for street walkers and thugs, thieves and scammers.

You can find ladies who in my opinion are safe to meet on places like Eros. Gentleman be safe and please don't listen to everything this guy R. The reputable ones will not allow you to use your own condoms because men have been known to poke holes in them , and they are going to ask that you refrain from talking about services, sex and price because all of that together is what will lead to you and her being "busted for prostitution".

Most reputable escorts have a screening process, and that is for both her and your safety. If you are seeing a gal off Backpage I guarantee you most don't screen or even do a thorough screening to know who is coming to see them.

Someone mentioned the Honest Courtesan Maggie Mcneils site. Great place to read up on very intelligent info concerning escorting. Might I also suggest http: If it looks to good to be true, it probably is! I was scammed really bad: Back page is filled with "too good to be true" offers and more likely than not they are NOT legitimate escorts.

Too many men have been robbed, beaten, and scammed by women and men posing as escorts, or offering a really "cheap" deal and they end up regretting it. Many many escort boards out there, and you can look on Eros. I am exactly looking for the same post that I have got at your blog, I am not sure if someone can let me know, is their any way to book Escort Barcelona or may be one in Escort Madrid , please help. I have a friend who is providing along with 2 other girls..

Im also wondering if I can get in trouble for helping my friend place an add. About 2 months ago, my friend and I we're both guys and each had sex with her separately decided to get an escort. Everything went smoothly and it was a great time. But earlier today, out of nowhere, I got a call on my cell phone from a guy saying I had gotten the escort pregnant. I kindly asked him to state why he believes I am the would-be father. I definitely had a condom on whenever my penis was inside her vagina.

The guy would not answer any of my simple questions and he eventually hung up on me. His calls come up private. Is this some kind of scam that pimps are known for doing? Has anyone heard of something like this before? He knows my first name and cell number, but I will be changing my cell number tomorrow. Does anyone know if someone can find out your address by knowing your cell phone number? Any feedback or advice would greatly be appreciated.

I saved the escort's BackPage ad and have many different ways I can approach this situation if it goes any further. My story below; She was very pleasant on the phone and we agreed to an hour session. We met at my hotel and she seemed very nice, she is a beautiful and smart lady, but eventually it became apparent it is all about her, not her client.

It started out nice, we settled into the room, I asked her to shower with me and she agreed. She is completely uninhabited and I enjoyed our time in the shower.

We finished, did I say she is beautiful naked, we then chatted donated she really was at ease. I had relaxed a bit myself so asked her to BJ which she did for a short time, she then insisted on doggie, not my favorite position to start fucking with, I'd rather look the lady in the face while banging her. She did nothing to arouse me further and the position was not working. I moved to change position and she jumped up to get dressed.

Only 30 min had past since she walked in the door and she said it wasn't happening so she was going to leave. I complained and asked her to finish me off with CBJ, but the effort was lame and she gave up after just a minute.

WTF, the moment had past. I walked her out to her taxi, oddly she kept talking to me like leaving early was not a problem. I honestly was really rather speechless but did tell her I was not happy with her. I consider myself a gentleman with women and I take them at cost. In hind sight, while I found Jinny to be personable, beautiful and sexy, the speed she went to a small cover was disturbing and did not get me fully aroused. I actually pulled it off and used one of my own.

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Don't take out your anger on these girls that are just trying to pay their bills. Just get a girlfriend, go to church, and I dunno Why put your energy towards destroying women like this. You're all sick in the head. You guys are seriously what's wrong with society. I'm always surprised to read these "flame" posts. Do you think your vitriol and bullying are going to change others' perspectives or what we choose to do?

Or perhaps you're a provider who's threatened that now honest clients who've been treated poorly are beginning to organize, to share our experiences, to retaliate for abuse, and to demand better treatment. What working citizen isn't? This is not a moral issue. Prostitution is one of the oldest professions in existence. So if you're on here judging us then go blow a guy I refer to as Hairy Cox you scumbag. This is about escorts scamming clients.

Not all of them are guilty, but you will find more lemons then strong runners. I do agree with one suggestion about the erotic review, however, this methodology can have it's drawbacks too. As much as you want to lie to yourself and say they are all about the money, the truth is they are human and have preferences. Should they be able to work around those preferences? But if you're a four hundred pound fatty, and I'm a trim, hung and handsome sex machine Money can't buy attraction, it can only buy an actress.

If the guy who's reviewing the escort is her cup of tea and a regular None of these variables are ever talked about Speaking as a medical provider, I offer this perspective: As an ER physician I don't find appealing dealing in blood, mucus, and other uncomely fluids, but I recognize the people I serve NEED my services, and I attend to them with humility, competence, dexterity, and the utmost of regard for their human dignity.

Older, heavier, "unattractive" by standard societal convention human beings need intimacy as much as--if not far more than--others, and yet many "professions" revile them instead, treating them like so much detritus. That's simply ignoble, and speaks volumes about the character of the person who'd treat the most legitimately needful so. If you're ever unfortunate enough to be in a serious accident, or suffer a life-threatening but sudden onset disease, and you're wheeled into a frenetic trauma center, hope the attending physicians and other medical staff don't treat you the way you "look," but rather with the compassion you're likely to be desperate for when you're hurting most.

Anyone vouch that these girls are legit? I'd like to personally hope you are robbed not physically hurt and taken advantage of by your next WHITE client Also a fact that its amazing people don't think about I don't wish death on anybody but if you don't see black men I do hope you get Robbed!

When I see an escort say "No blacks", I'm more likely to give her a call. This gives me assurance that she doesn't just fuck anybody and less likely to have an STD.

Nice article, interesting to know what others think regarding escorts. So, my story is, I was tricked by few girls at once, although I called only one to come in, total damage was dollars, they stole some my personal belongings, so some drama. So USA is sucks regarding this freedom thing. You cant even fcuk a girl in USA without being punished for that, although I treat girls who do escorts with very high respect, they are very brave ones to give a man what he wants.

I just think it aint gonna work, they will keep on their scam. I changed my mind, instead of sex I go to gym and working my self out to death, so now it is even worse, every pussy wherever I go to party want to ride me LOL, nahhhh, I am done, because of scam, I do sex 1 a year only and keep on pumping my muscles instead, same effect don't want sex at all, really.

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Go out and get yourself a flesh tube and try it. It's safer and feels much better than a loose whore. Or get a fuck buddy. Their is really no way around the bull some providers pull. I constantly get rushed or told what she won't do after giving and having her hide my money which in turn immediately turns me off. I also had the experience of a girl not being the same as in her photo.

I wish i had the heart to chock out some of these chicks who actually think its ok. I never understood paying up front why not half now half later when im completely satisfied.

I mean who came up with these rules when the man just put his self out there and takes a huge risk. I also despise the no blackmen thing,i mean i work,im respectable,never robbed nobody,racism still exist just for no reason but hate,come on now,it's bias not preference.

I would advise bringing a gun with you and if she get out of line threaten that bitch and get your money back. The Usual Suspect agrees with Snip on a few things he mentioned. The bait 'n' switch tactic lights a fire under Suspect's ass. Paying upfront and then she tells all the things she won't do is a huge turnoff. Makes Suspect want to ask for his money because he feels mislead. Instead Suspect goes along with the rules and makes the best of it.

Reason Suspect doesn't take his money and leave is because the provider can Blacklist him and ruin his life. Blacklist is an evil website that immature and vengeful whores can use to put a Hobbyist on blast to anyone with a simple google search. The Usual Suspect disagrees with the last point, or allegation rather Snip made. Suspect been around a while. Notice the same comments amongst providers not affiliated with agencies. This leads Suspect to believe that these women have pimps.

Suspect did some research and learned a lot of pimps black included don't want black clients. Claim black folk are more likely to cause problems, especially younger black folk. Disturbances draw attention to the operation costing the pimp money. Pimps and hos view white men as easy targets to scam. Reality is, Bait 'n' switch, upscales, not performing, and even cash 'n' dash scams are easier to accomplish on someone who's thought of as naive.

Suspect has view several ads by black escorts stating, "no black men" as well. Suspect antenna goes up when he's hunting and comes across a no bros for hos ad. Adds her profile to his personal Do Not Call list.

Suspect seen more than one on his list prove to be scams. Pay attention to the victims and you will notice very few if any are black. Dubious pimps and providers target individuals less likely to fight back for fear of losing much more.

Suspect propose to Snip and other black hobbyist don't be discouraged. It's rather encouraging knowing your not the mark. The Usual Suspects advice to Snip It makes the accuser look immature and ignorant to.

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I say much like cheating the best policy is to meet with someone who has as much to lose as you do, older women married or with kids, who you meet in their home that have local numbers, not the girls who say "last night in town" with some random area code. Its like selling or buying on craigslist, deal with local people who will not be gone tomorrow. I mean I know I don't want them showing up at my house anymore then they want me showing up at at their house.

Bottom line as humans we all have needs. The client needs human contact and some feeling of being close plus the sex, if he just wanted to bust a nut he could stay home and jack off. The worker needs money for basic needs hopefully not drugs or whatever. And again I say for the black guys, it seems to me if you need some, hit the swinging scene, if you are clean, can speak and are respectful you can find a good looking wife to help you out.

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